Greetings and Introductions
Greetings and introductions bring people closer. It stipulates positivity, closeness to civilization in social gatherings through the form of greetings may differ depending on culture, age difference, occasions, etc.
Every greeting and introduction is a sign of respect so it is an important thing to do. Therefore, make a conscious effort to say “Hello” even you are shy, grumpy and make introduction to the person to whom you are introduced.
Informal Greetings:
“Hello” and “Hi” even “Hey”, “What’s up” or “How’s it going?” accompany with a smile and the name of the person if you know it. “Good morning”, “Good afternoon”, and even “Good evening” are commonly used and are formal.
“Hello” is a simple greeting, you don’t have to stop and chat unless the party has a question or a concern. In case the person wants to talk, graciously explain to them that you are in a hurry with a smile and part. Make it a habit to greet people who serves you such as a receptionist or a cashier.
When you normally don’t want to wave to your neighbors, say: “Good Morning” same goes for your coworkers as well. In case someone ignores when showing politeness, don’t be offended: It’s usually unintentional or the person is preoccupied, late for an appointment or he/she might have not seen you in the first place. Still people do notice when you pass by without saying “Hello” to them.
A good habit starts at home. It only takes seconds to acknowledge the people you live with. When someone is home simple “Hi, how was your day?” is a good way to start instead of simply ignoring them.
When someone is far away or in a lecture service or live performance, just smile, wave, nod and then save your “Hellos” later.
Formal Greetings:
In certain aspects, especially in the business world, some participant may or may not know one another in a receiving line or at a special occasion. Instead of “Hi” use “Hello”, Mr. Brown” or “Good afternoon Madam secretary”. “How do you do?” is another option. Formality is also conveyed by your tone of voice and even your posture. Make an effort to stand up straight, look the person in the eye and speak clearly, pleasantly and genuinely.
No matter the circumstance, a good manner always matters in a civil society.
